As I mentioned in my February In Review post, I had family visit at the beginning of the month. First, my cousin Lynn, her partner and their four kids ages 2-11. They are such good kids (and so cute), but again, there’s four of them, so it was a lot! The highlight was going to Knott’s Berry Farm, where the 11-year-old rode the big kid rides with me. The day after they left, my aunt and uncle, cousin John, his partner and their kid (age 2) visited, too. Luckily, a two year old doesn’t do as much damage as the older kids did, so their visit was more low-key. The highlights were seeing Captain Marvel with John and going hiking on Santa Cruz island with John and my other local cousin Daniel (if you can’t tell, I have a pretty big family).

Then, I saw more family when I flew home with my grandpa for my mom’s birthday. We had a nice big family gathering for a few days, I just wish I could have stayed longer, especially since I was sick. Long story short, I’ve had cold-like symptoms on and off all month until earlier this week I was in a great deal of pain. It hurt to open my mouth and I could barely swallow or speak. I was told I have a peritonsillar abscess that needed to be drained by a specialist. The procedure was painful, but quick and went smoothly so hopefully that’s the last of my health woes for now.

Between bursts of being ill, I did have a chance to do fun things such as a little shopping afternoon in Ojai with my aunties and Grandma and go to a King’s game… and some not so fun things like working at my part-time job (just kidding, it’s not so bad).

Now, the moment you’ve all been waiting for. In my Goals Update post I mentioned there may not be a need to continue my “real” job hunt and I promised to talk more about why. I think I have a job starting in July! It is a fisheries observer job: I would work and live on a vessel and various plants in the north Pacific “monitoring commercial fisheries and collect data to support science, conservation, and management of U.S. marine fisheries.” This job would be perfect for where I am right now because I can have a chance to work for a few weeks to a few months at a time and then travel and/ or return home between contracts. It won’t start until July because the training takes three weeks and they want your first deployment to immediately follow your training and with my Thailand trip coming up fast, I couldn’t commit to the immediate deployment. However, although I won’t be interviewed for another two months, I’m confident in my qualifications and really hope I can have this experience!

March In Review 2018 || March In Review 2017

What I’m listening to: The Most Beautiful Moment in Life Pt. 2 by BTS, Fantasies by Metric, Fight with Tools by Flobots, Holding Absence by Holding Absence, The Story of Light Epilogue by Shinee, Is This It by The Strokes, The Physical World by Death From Above 1979, Sheezus by Lily Allen

What I’m watching: No Country for Old Men, Black Panther, Ant-Man and the Wasp, Captain Marvel, You (season 1)

What I’m reading: Check out Reading Wrap-Up posts #04 (Percy Jackson edition) and #05 for what I’ve read this month.

Follow:

It’s that time again! To update on my previous goals and set new ones.

Here’s how my winter goals went…

  • Find a job, even if it’s just part-time: Yes! I got a part-time job at a movie theater.
  • Apply for 10 career jobs a week: I’ve been quite busy and haven’t applied to as many as I would like but probably applied to five a week on average. But there may not be a need to apply for more big girl jobs. More on that later…
  • Try the MeetUp app to make new friends: MeetUp was a total flop. There are few groups near me and hardly any my age. I hope to find another way to make friends out here.
  • Visit one new southwest state/ park: I went hiking with my cousins on Santa Cruz island! It was amazing.
  • Watch more classic films: Nope.
  • Read three books a month: I’ve read about seven books a month on average so far. Although I’ve hit a bit of a wall and am not loving the book I’m currently reading.

Now, here are some of my goals for spring:

  • Work 15-20 hours a week at my part-time job
  • Stay away from the snacks at work
  • Secure a full-time job
  • Hike once a month
  • Visit one new southwest state/ park
  • Read three books a month
  • Go to the gym three times a week
  • Meal plan and prep

I will update my goals at the beginning of summer!

What are your goals for the next few months?

Photo by Dimitry Anikin.

Follow:

As a reminder, here is how I rate my books:

  • (★★★★★): Loved it
  • (★★★★): Really liked it
  • (★★★): Didn’t hate it, didn’t love it
  • (★★): Barely finished it

Another few notes: I will warn if there are any spoilers with (start spoiler) and (end spoiler) so you know when to stop reading and pick up again if you don’t want to ruin the book for yourself. Update: I will no longer be going out of my way to watch adaptions, but will continue to mention them and their general critiques (from Rotten Tomatoes) in my reviews.

Please forgive my gaps between the books, I was reading the Percy Jackson series at this time, as well!

Animal Farm by George Orwell

41bgiGplMlL._SX301_BO1,204,203,200_Rating: ★★★★

Genre: Classics, fiction, dystopia

GoodReads rating:  3.91 / 5 (2,305,000 ratings)

Medium used: Audio book and e-reader (borrowed from library via OverDrive)

Date started/ finished: 6/2 – 10/2

Summary: Once the overworked animals reclaim the farm from the lording humans, they try to make their own way as their own rulers.

Thoughts: Wow! I really liked this book. It’s short and feels extremely relevant in today’s political climate.

Other adaptations: The 1954 animated version fared better than the live action 1999 version, but neither would be classified as “must-sees” by critics nor audiences.

The Firm by John Grisham

5358Rating: ★★★★

Genre: Fiction, (legal) thriller, mystery

GoodReads rating:  4.00 / 5 (519,000 ratings)

Medium used: Audio book and e-reader (borrowed from library via OverDrive)

Date started/ finished: 13/2 – 4/3

Summary: Mitch McDeere is hired out of college to an unassuming law firm in sleepy Memphis, Tennessee with amazing benefits. Only when he realizes that half a dozen of his coworkers at this small law firm have died in the last decade in mysterious accidents… what is the firm up to?

Thoughts: My only complaint is that it dragged a bit at parts and feel it could have been maybe 3/4 of the length it was and still been as effective. Other than that, it was greatly entertaining and had me on the edge of my seat.

Other adaptations: Apparently, one complaint about the 1993 movie starring Tom Cruise is that it’s too long, too! Otherwise, gets an average rating from audiences.

The Hate U Give by Angie Thomas

41PN13KdexL._SX329_BO1,204,203,200_Rating: ★★★★

Genre: Young adult, fiction

GoodReads rating: 4.54 / 5 (280,000 ratings)

Medium used: Hardback book purchased new from Antigone Books (Tucson, Arizona)

Date started/ finished: 8/2 – 5/3

Summary: “Sixteen-year-old Starr Carter moves between two worlds: the poor neighborhood where she lives and the fancy suburban prep school she attends.” When she witnesses the unrighteous murder of her best friend and makes national headlines, she is torn between maintaining the “normal” facade at her school, or compromising her friendships and safety by speaking out.

Thoughts: I wish they built a bit more background on the prep school side of Starr’s life, I feel it was a bit underdeveloped for being so featured as a plot point in online summaries. Other than that, it felt really fresh and like something that could actually happen (and probably has). From the unfollowing-on-Tumblr-for-posting-policial-protest drama (I’ve been there) to the different faces we put on around others in adolescence, it was all so real.

Other adaptations: The 2018 film is loved by views and critics alike, I think I’ll have to see this one!

Sadie by Courtney Summers

34810320Rating: ★★★★

Genre: Young adult, mystery

GoodReads rating:  4.23 / 5 (20,900 ratings)

Medium used: Bought via Amazon Kindle app

Date started/ finished: 5/3 – 12/3

Summary: When young girl Mattie is found dead and her sister Sadie is missing, Sadie’s track to revenge is followed in the form of a podcast from her sleepy hometown of Cold Creek.

Thoughts: First thing’s first, big warning for sexual assault and pedophilia themes in this book. I know a lot of fellow book bloggers found this story to be a bit heavy but for me it’s what makes it so effective. I really loved the format of the writing from multiple points of view and hear it’s best consumed in the form of an audiobook. This is a great young adult mystery that has more mature themes and feel transcends the somewhat juvenile themes I often find in young adult novels.

Have you read any of these? Which did you enjoy most?

Photo by Radu Marcusu.

Follow:

thumbnail_image1Tell us a bit about yourself.

My names Sinéad, I’m 28 years old and I’m half Italian. I live in Windsor in Berkshire. I’m married to my darling wife Tazmyn. We got married in July of 2018 without anybody knowing, we told them 24 hours after. It was exactly how we wanted it and we wouldn’t have changed a thing about our special day. I have a cat called Gracie who’s 2. She’s quite literally my little baby. I love the sunshine, getting my nails done, scrolling Pinterest for hours at a time and I’m a sucker for reality TV.

How did you get into blogging?

I started my blog on August 1st 2018, a couple of weeks after I got married. Originally the idea behind the blog was just to have a place where I could document the first year of married life. The butterflies and the boundaries. Within 3 weeks of starting my blog, I began to get emails with collaboration offers and since then I’ve been lucky enough to have worked with some really fantastic brands and companies. You’ll see lots of skincare related posts, and different brands of skin products that I’ve tried and tested! They’ve been pretty fun posts to do. I love doing reviews.

Tell us about your favorite blog post.

I think one of my favourite blog posts by me has to be “6 months of being Mrs. Chalke” I reflected here on how the past 6 months has been for me since becoming a wife and creating the blog! It’s always good to look back on how far you’ve come and all you’ve achieved.

What are you doing when you’re not blogging?

When I’m not blogging I’m a full time nanny to two little girls. I honestly love my job so much but it’s very full on. I work 45-50 hours a week so by the time I get home in the evening I’m always super tired, I still somehow manage to blog most days though as it’s a real passion of mine. We’ve recently moved house, so in between working and blogging, we’re getting our house straight and exactly how we want it.

What is the hardest part about your weight loss journey so far?

So Tazmyn and I are currently on a healthy lifestyle/diet journey. We’re almost 10 days in and it’s really been an adjustment. We used to eat so badly, meals out all of the time, ordering take aways, and we were suckers for tea and biscuits (sometimes a whole pack, each!!!) But in February 25th we decided to say enough was enough and change our poor eating habits and learn new, healthier ones. We’ve given up fizzy drinks, sugar in our tea’s and coffee’s, no more biscuits or junk food, no meals out. We’re aiming to always have below 1200 calories a day and keeping our diet very low carb. We’ve smashed our water intake too which is around 3 litres a day and been making better choices when it comes to mealtimes. Another change we decided to make was not to weigh ourselves weekly, we have always found this to be a destructive tool in the past whenever we have tried to lose weight, as the scales can fluctuate from week to week depending on whether you’re retaining water or it’s your time of the month. So to avoid getting disheartened and even falling off track, we’ve decided to weigh in monthly. So far it’s working for us, we can already feel a difference within ourselves and are super excited to find out how we’ve done at the end of the month! I’d say the hardest thing about the weight loss journey so far is not having meals out! We used to eat out all of the time so I guess I kind of miss that.

What was your favorite part about visiting Brighton? 

My favourite part about visiting Brighton a few weeks ago was definitely the Marina. Tazmyn and I love Brighton, it’s where I fell in love with her, it’s where we went on our minimoon straight after we got married, and it’s where we go back to time and time again. Strangely though, we had never visited the marina until our most recent visit a couple of weeks ago. The harbour is so pretty and all the restaurants and bars give it a really nice atmosphere. We already can’t wait to go back in the summer. We want to do the glow in the dark crazy golf at the marina as it looks so much fun!!

Where else can we find you? 

Instagram || Twitter

Photo by Arnel Hasanovic.

Follow:

Here are my top five posts from all categories:

  1. 10 tips for your first trip to Thailand: Less than three months until wheels up! Updated post on my trip coming soon…
  2. The truth about volunteering with lions: I wrote a post about wildlife tourism a bit ago and it’s a topic that has really stuck with me as a conservationist and animal lover.
  3. 2019 Pop Sugar Reading Challenge: I’m on a roll with reading this year (I think I just finished my 20th book) so maybe a challenge like this will help me step outside my comfort zone a little bit!
  4. Living in France as an expat: I really love the format and organization of this post. Whenever someone asks me what’s different about the U.K. from the U.S. I give the intelligible answer of, “Umm, uhh…”
  5. 25 things travel has taught me: A great, down to earth assessment of how travel changes you through the years. I, too, will never be a light packer.

Science, sustainability and veganism

General travel and study abroad

Travel destinations

Lifestyle

Entertainment

Blogging

Photo by Andrew Knechel.

Follow: