I try to do a little get-to-know me post every six months for new comers and faithful followers itching to know more. But after two volumes of straight-up facts (you can read Vol. I here and Vol. II here), I decided to mix it up last time and do a random question generator (Vol. III here).

Now, I’m doing A-B-C’s of me with Q and Z omitted for obvious reasons. Some of these facts might be repeats from previous posts.

Across the Universe: One of my two all-time favorite movies! The other one is mentioned later in this post…

Bailey: My beloved Border collie mix. You can read all about him in this post.

Conservation biology: My degrees and life purpose.

Diego: My handsome boyfriend.

Elizabeth: My middle name.

Fear: My biggest fear used to be sharks. When I did a baited dive in South Africa for the first time, I was scared shitless (I had to come up before everybody else because I was guzzling air so fast). But now, I’ve come to realize they’re harmless (as long as you’re not an idiot), majestic creatures.

Great Britain: Where I’ve lived abroad for two years and where I’d love to live again if I can manage a visa.

Hair: I’ve recently dyed it half blonde (literally right down the middle) and cut it quite short (we don’t speak of it, I’m counting down the days until it’s a reasonable length again).

It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia: My all-time favorite T.V. show.

Job hunting: I’m currently looking for a job in conservation, somewhere in California preferably (Bay area, L.A. or San Diego). I recently got a part-time job at the movie theater so I have some money trickling in to get a head start on my student loans and fun things.

Katya: My all-time favorite drag queen and contestant on one of my other favorite T.V. shows RuPaul’s Drag Race.

Les Miserables: My all-time favorite musical. I’ve seen it in Phoenix, New York and London.

Multiple sclerosis: A disease my mom has had since I was a girl and a focal point of my life at home. Maybe I’ll speak more about it on this blog on day… maybe…

Norway: My most recent international trip. You can read about it here.

Old Boy: My other all-time favorite movie.

Percy Jackson: The book series I’m currently reading (I’m on book four along with The Firm and The Hate U Give).

Rise Against: My all-time favorite band. I can’t wait to see them again in May!

Siblings: I have two brothers, Kyle (22) and Ryan (20).

Thailand: My next holiday in June with mt brother Ryan, I’m so excited!

University of Sussex: My most recent alumna matter.

Vegetarian: I’ve been meat-free since 2011 and try to eat vegan when I can. It’s a lot harder in the U.S. than in the U.K.

Wilma: The name of my grandma, who I’ve moved in with a month ago. It’s been amazing!

X: One of my several tattoos is a simple “x” on my wrist. You can read all about my tattoos in this post.

YouTube: I watch a lot of YouTube, mostly commentary (comedy) and book channels.

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I’ll be publishing a few of these relatively close together as I play catch-up!

I have also edited my previous posts and current post to show how long it took me to read each book and when exactly I read it.

As a reminder, here is how I rate my books:

  • (★★★★★): Loved it
  • (★★★★): Really liked it
  • (★★★): Didn’t hate it, didn’t love it
  • (★★): Barely finished it

Another few notes: I will warn if there are any spoilers with (start spoiler) and (end spoiler) so you know when to stop reading and pick up again if you don’t want to ruin the book for yourself. I also try to watch as many adaptations as I can, just to compare, so I will comment on all the ones I’ve seen.

They Both Die at the End by Adam Silvera

9780062457806_p0_v1_s550x406Rating: ★★★

Genre: Fiction, young adult, LGBT+

GoodReads rating: 4.15 / 5 (43,300 ratings)

Medium used: E-reader (borrowed from library via OverDrive)

Date started/ finished: 20/1 – 27/1

Summary: Two young men due for an untimely death find each other to spend their Last Day with.

Thoughts: I was really attracted to the premise of this book; the idea that you’re told the day you’re going to die, stories of how people have tried to evade their fate and how this service has effected the society was a really interesting idea. But the story kind of fell flat for me. It wasn’t that memorable, the deaths could have been more climactic and (start spoiler) the romance seemed really forced. I was really excited to see two young men have a vulnerable platonic relationship, but I feel this just furthered the stereotype that men can’t be open with each other as women can unless they’re romantically involved. (end spoiler)

To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee

9780061120084_p0_v4_s550x406Rating: ★★★★

Genre: Classic, historical fiction

GoodReads rating:  4.27 / 5 (3,800,000 ratings)

Medium used: E-reader (borrowed from library via OverDrive)

Date started/ finished: 27/1 – 31/1

Summary: Scout and her family are the talk of town in their small Southern neighborhood when her father defends a black man for the alleged rape of a white woman.

Thoughts: Just like everyone else, I read this book in school but was too young to appreciate it, probably because it was forced down my throat. Luckily, I didn’t remember much so it was like reading it for the first time and I liked it a lot. I love historical fiction and a good legal thriller and this is the best of both worlds through the eyes of a young girl in a coming-of-age story. This classic is definitely one you shouldn’t skip over.

Other adaptations: The 1960’s movie is so gripping. I was particularly fond of Atticus, his character was so dignified and the actor did an incredible job. But I don’t need to tell you that, it’s gotten its fair share of critically acclaim and awards. Obviously, the movie is more streamlined, but nothing from the book that they didn’t include in the movie made me think twice.

The Giver by Lois Lowry

51vkcuypuXLRating: ★★★★

Genre: Classic, fiction, dystopia

GoodReads rating:  4.12 / 5 (1,500,000 ratings)

Medium used: Audio book and e-reader (borrowed from library via OverDrive)

Date started/ finished: 1/2 – 2/2

Summary: In the perfect community of “sameness,” Jonas is assigned the task of bearing the memories of societies past.

Thoughts: Another great classic for the shelves. This is a short read but really thoughtful.

Other adaptations: The movie came out in 2014 and it was… okay. The book is really philosophical and a lot of the plot exists in the mind of the reader and has a real point of view that’s hard to portray in the movie. The screenwriters had a gargantuan task translating this adaptation and did the best they could, but fell short even with a stellar cast (I especially love the casting of Cameron Monaghan as Asher). The first half of the movie was good, but the pacing and diversions from the book plot (start spoiler) (making the mom a total bitch, a forced romantic plotline, etc.) (end spoiler) really lost me in the second half.

Where’d You Go, Bernadette by Maria Semple

81FX7MLN6RLRating: ★★★★

Genre: Fiction

GoodReads rating: 3.91 / 5 (328,000 ratings)

Medium used: E-reader (borrowed from library via OverDrive)

Date started/ finished: 3/2 – 6/2

Summary: Eccentric mother and former architect Bernadette goes missing after stirring trouble amongst the private school moms and acting rashly in a way that made her husband fear for her safety.

Thoughts: This book is really unique in that the first 2/3 or so is written as different correspondences between the characters that develop the plot and characters really well. I think of this as Eleanor Oliphant, but actually good (sorry about it) with a more satisfying ending.

Other adaptations: I’m excited for the movie coming out later this year with Cate Blanchett!

Have you read any of these? Which did you enjoy most?

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P3IcW50pTell us a bit about yourself. 

Hey there, my name’s Melissa, and I run the blog Castles and Hurricanes! My blog covers a variety of different topics, including lifestyle, books, and sustainability. I’m a 23-year-old college graduate with a Bachelor of Science in Environmental Science. It’s been hard to find a career, so at the moment I am looking into taking more classes to advance my education. In the meantime, I hang out with my cat (Tigger) and my dog (Scooby).

How did you get into blogging?

I’m more of an introvert, but I do love interacting with people. Blogging allows me to still interact with others but by writing whenever I have the time. It’s a lot less stressful for me this way. I also love using my camera to take pictures for my blog! As for how I actually began blogging-I have always loved messing around on the internet, and I’ve created various blogs in the past. I was originally going to major in English in college, and someone suggested that I start a blog. I did, but I ended up deleting it because I had so much going on and couldn’t keep up with it. Now that I’ve graduated, I figured I’d give blogging a go again because I do enjoy it and the community!

Tell us about your favorite blog post.

My favorite would probably have to be my Adventures in Austin post. I don’t get to travel very often, so reading the post allows me to relive the trip. I was definitely impressed with Austin’s vegetarian selection and was overall super excited about the whole adventure. I took so many pictures while I was there, so those were fun to browse through while I was writing the post! I’m hoping to go to Austin again this year, so I might end up making another similar post (hopefully exploring other parts of the city).

What are you doing when you’re not blogging?

When I’m not blogging, I’m likely playing with my pets. I also spend most of my weekends playing at Quidditch tournaments. A few other hobbies include reading, listening to music, watching Marvel movies, and playing PS4 games. I also work part-time at a coffee shop as well and should hopefully be taking some computer science classes soon.

What are you favorite things to eat as a vegetarian?

I really love tofu! I feel like it’s so easy and quick to make, and there’s so many variations (tofu scramble, sesame tofu, tofu nuggets). I also love falafel/hummus wraps, and I enjoy most veggies and fruits too! I tend to love anything with avocado in it.

What is a book you really didn’t like or thought was overrated?

I didn’t really like David Leviathan’s “Everyday”. I believe they even made a movie about it, but the book disappointed me. The whole thing about switching to a different body every morning just seemed like such a frustrating concept, so I didn’t really enjoy reading about it. I’m also trying to read “Dreamcatcher” by Stephen King right now, and I’m really not feeling it at the moment. Maybe I just need to read more for it to catch my attention, who knows.

Where else can we find you?

Instagram || Twitter || Pinterest || Bloglovin’

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Here are my top five posts from all categories:

  1. The traveller’s guide to offsetting your flights: This post is so thorough, there’s a way for everyone to do something regardless of budget. It’s so important to travel mindfully to preserve this planet for future generations to experience.
  2. Advice to new grad students: This was shared by my old mentor and it has a lot of great tips, especially about referencing.
  3. 10 amazing transport experiences: Such an interesting way to share about travel, I wish I thought of this!
  4. Best of 2018: all things media: You know a post is good when you may not 100% agree with the content, but it’s just so damn well-written, you can’t help but adore the hard work that was put into it. This was a great way to show off media favorites of the last year in one organized but coherent post.
  5. How to overcome writer’s block as a blogger: We’ve all been there and these are great realistic ways to get a natural flow back. I find simply writing anything (whether I intend to publish it or not) especially helpful.

Science, sustainability and veganism

General travel and study abroad

Travel destinations

Lifestyle

Entertainment

Blogging

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My first Unpopular Opinions post was my most popular post of 2018! I did have a few travel opinions weaved into that post (about Instagram, Las Vegas and the Grand Canyon), but decided to dedicate a whole post to unpopular travel opinions.

Disney parks actually suck. If you’re a childless adult, unless you love Disney (and I mean love), it’s not worth it. The parks are crowded, hot, expensive, filled with obnoxious kids and irritable parents and the attractions are just okay.

Volunteering trips usually do more harm than good. I’ve seen several of my friends posting for months asking for donations for a charity trip as if they’ve been passionate about this issue their whole lives and will continue such work after their trip. In this case, people usually want others to pay for their travel under the guise of “charity” work. Sure, workers can do some good by building a house or two, but most of them are just going to the exotic excursions that come after, never to think of the organization or project again.

I don’t want to “quit my job to travel.” I got my degrees because I’m passionate about conservation and want to pursue that to make a difference. I love traveling but I also love working in my field. Similarly, I don’t want to travel for months on end either. I enjoy coming home to family and friends to recharge.

Not everyone wants you to play your music on your speakers. I cringe every time someone recommends Bluetooth speakers as a gift for a traveler. I’m usually quite busy when I travel and want to relax when I come back to the hostel in the evening, not arrive to a mini-rave. Playing music out loud in a common area is so disrespectful of others.

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I don’t go for the window seat on planes for most flights. I have mild O.C.D. when it comes to the bathroom and sleeping. In my undergraduate degree, it used to be really bad where I would have to use the bathroom up to a dozen times before I could fall asleep to make sure my bladder was as empty as could be before falling asleep. It’s gotten a lot better over the years, but flying is still my weak spot since it usually takes me a while to fall asleep. I don’t want to disturb others in my row, so on flights where I need to sleep, I’ll take the isle seat so I can use the bathroom at my leisure.

Cruises don’t appeal to me. While ports of call can be exciting and cruises are a great way to see several places in one trip, you don’t get a lot of time in each destination. I also  wouldn’t be eager to spend time around so many people (especially kids) and wait in line for everything. Finally, I can take in activities and entertainment offered between ports of call at home probably for a lower price. While I won’t say “never,” cruises aren’t my first holiday choice (or second, or third…).

I avoid drinking while travelling. I almost never drink in excess on travel. Yes, that means I’ve never been on a pub crawl, but I’d love to some day! My Europe trips were always so short and wanted to make the most of it by hitting the pavement early, you can’t always do that with a splitting hangover. I also avoid drinking to save money and keep my head when I’m alone in an unfamiliar place. I might have a cheeky pint at the end of the day at most.

I have no problem with delayed flights as long as I don’t have a connecting flight or important obligation waiting for me at the other end of my journey. At the airport, I have a bathroom, WiFi and all the overpriced food I need. I think I’ll live.

Do you strongly disagree with any of these? Fight me.

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